Your pain I see and understand,
But in time you will know, yours can never be a great as mine.
You love her.
Yes, I do believe that.
However  
My love affair with her was started much farther in the past.
I know you want answers and have asked for guidance,
I have the ability to provide guidance,  but my self control is where my attempt has been halted.

Anger is present but only a reflection of my pain, so this will be my answer to your strain.

The Truth in everything has been revealed, you need to know that so your able to accept the future. Many of these were painful to hear, but no progress happens when hidden in shadow.

very clear expectations where set with our last attempt of acceptance,  also clear consequence to further deceit.

All the the answers you search for are known in your heart, which I feel is why you have been fearing what will happen, you both knew what to do, it not possible to change the past.

I have run out of chances to afford you, given to many already might be true,  there are always consequences to each choice in life, we asked for compliance and punishment was due but before complete, we were again met with continued deceit.

My duties as a parent include teaching cause and effect.
God commands me to teach my young. “Train obedience with discipline” all of this is a result of love even though you both may not see it. I know your young and made mistakes, but I asked both of you to be honest, stop lying and hiding. Also to accept your actions and pay a consequence,  a fraction in time that was owed not for my benefit but for yours. To learn and grow. I thought that was happening but you know that’s not true.
If you really love her it’s time to let go, think about it clearly and I’ll pray that you see, this is just a stepping stone in becoming who your meant to be.

This is unfinished and may be repeating but I here it is