Love learned from a mother
Francina Sedibe my mom
Love learned from a mother
By:Nyakallo Sedibe
This might seem very tricky but its what i observe or experience most of the time.
They say " you only know what you have/had when its not within your reach or presence"
But for others it seems totally different.
They will love, adore and embrace you in their presence and once you are away seems like the “ out of sight, out of mind game begins”.
Its so simple for people to say “ i love you” and so easy for the subconscious mind to believe it, but the truth with love is in action and even the conscious mind can feel it by its deeds.
But still we fail to comprehend this whole love thing.
Could it be a feeling or just a mere idea that we make ourself believe its real.
How can 1 say I’m in love when ... Kindness, patience, understanding, support and solid communication ant there???"1 corinthians 13"
Why do people try their best to impress one another and not be themselves if love is a curve to a journey of learning from each other.
Then communication: how can a couple be physically connected if not spiritually one and mentally one,
By this i mean why do we manage to get all intimate but fail to pray together, talk about our private life together and share both our weak points and strong points with each other.
What really makes love, love??
Because as people we are different and get into relationships with different expectations.
What if your view of love is different from my view of love yet we want to be together, then what???
It all boils down to this..
Is love chemistry,
Is it a feeling
Is it a thought
Or is it a choice?
I have seem motherly love and thats the purest love i know.
The love that sacrifices, that worries for the well being of a child.
The love that teaches and grooms.
The love that nurtures and embraces even what people reject.
The love that sees beauty always.
The love that believes in you and support your dreams.
The love that never wants to let go of you.
The love that will pray for you day and night, and constantly tell you its gonna be all right.
The love that wipes away your tears and give u a shoulder to lean on.
The love that shed tears when you hurt and give a hug when you down.
The love that is always there and never dies.
And maybe just maybe because every being is born of that love, this is what they seek as love from others as they grow.
Ive learned true love through motherly love.
If only we could all love our partners like this and so they do the same.
By: Nyakallo *capricious blackdove
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