I'm finally free from the narcissistic sociopath who once controlled my life. On Monday 4/20/15 my ex came and got the rest of his belongings. On Tuesday 4/21/15 we went to court and with in a half an hour signed papers and he's out of my life for good. No reminders of him left behind. All the problems are now in the past. It's been a very long road but I have survived. I will get what I was promised and I bought him out of his half of the house. Now this is MY HOUSE! I am so very happy and feel alive once more. Living doesn't seem like such a chore. Now I'm living on my terms and not on his. I walk around and I'm happy once more. I will never ever be controlled again. It's not living it's like being in a prison. No one has the right to own anyone, but that's how it felt for me. These past 5 1/2 years were the worse. But now I want to start to live. Thank everyone for being there for me, it meant a lot. Now maybe I can write about the happier things in life. Sandi.